Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her from place to a different in home, public place, hotel etc is quite entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy when they see in serials husband lifts his spouse in the event she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same from their husbands and imagine that could be 1 day their husbands would lift them in their arms and take them from the living area to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and folks are wondering and wondering and saying inside "The reason? Is this a miracle? Oh, she is unquestionably very lucky." But in fact many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for just about any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions may be there in a few rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they need to have lifted their lovers but after they are in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and in some manner don't feel happy to complete such things for the most obvious reasons. Women complain too to their husbands when they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses in their arms. Please have an in depth go through the following conversation between a husband and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy working on his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to create her happy. He is least enthusiastic about television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It's 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to listen to her in the event she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife moved totally into her favorite serial. A few momemts later, most of a sudden, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he talks about her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the tv screen screen. He asks his wife with only a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I can see that there isn't any cricket match going on only at that time. Can you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife talks about her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't trust in me if I tell you." She mutes the channel since the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Of course, I'll believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch just how Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what I feel honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What do you consider?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a question casually "Who is Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I'm speaing frankly about this character. You understand she's my favorite. You appear to almost forget all the best actors."
"Oh, how do I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple the same as that. She is so lucky to have that strong man. I'm feeling so happy you know. Have you ever taken me like this even once? See just how much her husband loves her. That's the way to express love. You've never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You understand, he says I love one to her virtually every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You understand Gaeta's husband is not her real husband so they can say 'I love you' to her on a daily basis." He requires a pause and then continues "That's just a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those activities aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. Just how can I lift you when you're so heavy?"
"I understand, you would say that. There is a constant care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave with their wives and there is you should not remind me of my weight again and again. I'm trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I understand for six days you follow those activities and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You can never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and goes in one other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a look on his face.
From the aforementioned conversation one can conclude how men and women from middle-income group families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, the way the conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction make a difference people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can easily raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor could possibly be quite a heavy one for family men but when tried hard, could be very theraputic for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and if it persuades them to do something than to watch, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get mounted on serial characters rapidly and get used to see the characters in daily soaps they see on TV for a lengthy time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced like a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that even after replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character at heart and believe that she or he is still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for just about any change to just accept generally when a preexisting character is replaced with a brand new one. They take time to accept the brand new one. Somehow all these things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers when they get used to that specific character. Read this following assumptive example: A couple gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of these and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have fun together. One day in the morning, the wife just leaves the home without informing her husband. Once the husband returns back home from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the initial one and convinces him that he won't have chance to meet the initial one. What will happen in cases like this? Natural reaction such situation could be entering shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change may be pleasant or unpleasant or both. Although some men want to have such surprises some time in their life but used to factor and emotions will come in between. It's this that exactly happens with viewers when replacement of a common actors is performed most of a sudden by a team of TV serials which could be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers due to whom they are able to show whatever content they wish to to be able to entertain them.
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